When I became a single mother I was overwhelmed thinking about how this may affect my son. I wanted guidance and support that was constructive, action oriented and left me feeling encouraged and hopeful for our future. This turned out to be easy! My community was filled with support where I met the most amazing women. When I realized I was going to be a stepmom I was excited but nervous! I needed guidance so once again I turned to my community but to my surprise there wasn't any. I looked to social media where I joined several “support” groups. They were terrible! I often left the group feeling overwhelmed and horrified. I was horrified to think women really considered this support. I've since left the “support” groups and made it my purpose to provide women with support and guidance that I couldn't find.